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Building an Islamic Personality
Building an Islamic personality comprised of its two elements, thinking and behavior, is essential for any Muslim, and more so if we are to carry the Da’wah and revive the Ummah. In this article, we will examine what it means to forming and maintaining an Islamic personality.
First and foremost, it is vital that we understand the nature of human beings.
Instincts
Human beings are created with three basic instincts:
1. The instinct of worship
2. The instinct of kind
3. The instinct of survivalThese instincts have many outward manifestations called drives. The instinct of worship manifests itself in the human’s drive to worship something, whether it be the Creator, glorify idols or false deities, or creation itself. The instinct of preserving the human race appears in the sexual inclination and parenting. The survival instinct is realized in ownership, selfishness/selflessness, the desire to dominate, fear, and curiosity, etc.
Biological Needs
Human beings have biological needs:
1. Hunger and thirst
2. Defecation/urination
3. Sleeping/restInstincts and biological needs create vital energy that must be dissipated through the satisfaction of these instincts and needs. These needs are satisfied by the behavior or actions of a person. This fulfillment can be carried out in either the wrong or right manner. The criteria for whether the action to fulfill the need or instinct is wrong or right is established by Allah (swt).
As mentioned earlier, Man’s personality is made up of a mentality (way of thinking) and behavior (actions). In order to build a viable personality, the mentality and behavior should be complementary and consistent. In other words, they both must be extracted from the same source. As a result, things will be thought of and acted upon based on a common reference that will serve as the basis for fulfilling one’s instincts and biological needs.
In order to form a stable personality, the mentality and behavior must be built on a comprehensive ideology that is sound and correct, the mind must be convinced of its soundness, and it must also satisfy human instincts. This personality will have a greater ability to influence its surroundings, be more productive in the society, and will not degenerate.
The Islamic ‘Aqeedah is the only creed that is based on the intellect, satisfies the human instincts and biological needs, and provides tranquillity. The effects of basing the mentality and behavior on the Islamic ‘Aqeedah is clearly evident in every aspect of life. Some of these aspects are related to the mentality and others are related to behavior.
‘Aqeedah as a basis for the Muslim mentality
To establish the mentality upon the Islamic ‘Aqeedah means to understand the role of the mind and its limitations and the clear demarcation which separates the mind from revelation (Wahi). In addition, it means one must evaluate every idea from the point of view of the Islamic ‘Aqeedah prior to accepting or rejecting it.
It is easy to understand as to how the ‘Aqeedah is the basis for one’s actions or behavior, but it is difficult to comprehend the meaning of making the ‘Aqeedah the basis for the mentality (way of thinking). It should not be forgotten that Islam guides one’s thinking and behavior and defines the role of the mind. For example, the mind is not allowed to visualize or personify the Ghayb (Unseen, or what is beyond our senses) or to legislate. Rather, the mind has the role of interpreting and understanding the revealed texts (Qur’an and Sunnah) through a well defined methodology.
Consequently, Prophet Muhammad (saaw) clarified the matters of law that dealt with the people’s actions. However, he (saaw) also directed their thinking and clarified the limitations of their thinking. This is seen in the incident when the sun was eclipsed on the same day that the Prophet’s (saaw) son died. When people suggested that the sun eclipsed due to the death of his son, the Prophet (saaw) told them that the eclipse is a sign from Allah (swt), and it does not occur for anyone’s death. Therefore, there is no relationship between the two events. Another example is when the Prophet (saaw) cleared the misunderstanding of a group of his companions, who kept clung to their pre-Islamic belief that a star provided the rain. He told them to say that the Lord of the stars provided the rain.
Even the expressions of the Muslims were the subject of revelations, where Allah (swt) says in the Qur’an:
“O You who believe! Say not (to the Prophet) Ra’ina, but say, ‘Unjurna”
Islam also freed our thinking from the limitations of nationalism, of subservience to others, and of self-benefit. Instead, Islam gave mankind the freedom and fulfillment that comes with servitude to Allah (swt). Clearly, Islam came to guide not only our behavior but our thinking as well. Consequently, there is a great need to view the Islamic ‘Aqeedah as the source of all concepts in order to build the Islamic personality. After such a mentality is established, it becomes easy to develop it and to maintain it by learning and studying more about Islam.
When the Prophet (saaw) taught Abu Bakr (ra) he shaped his thinking based on the ‘Aqeedah. Thus, when the Quraysh talked to Abu Bakr about Isra’, he answered “I believe in things much more than this, I believe in the Wahi which comes to him in a time much shorter than you mention it took to travel from Makkah to Jerusalem.” This tells us how Abu Bakr thought and how he connected the ‘Aqeedah to his thought process.
Also, in the Battle of Badr, when the Prophet (saaw) chose a location, one of the Sahabah (ra) did not agree on this location. However, before expressing his opinion, he asked the Prophet (saaw) whether that decision was a revelation from Allah (swt) or a technical issue. This indicates that the Sahabi thinking was based on the ‘Aqeedah. The Sahabi would not have objected to the decision had it been a revelation.
If a Muslim is convinced that Allah (swt) is the Sovereign and believes in Muhammad (saaw) as the last and final Messenger, then his mentality should be based on this and nothing else.
Statements such as:
“Muhammad (saaw) is our beloved Prophet but he did not possess the knowledge of space travel and the information superhighway.”
“No limited text can accommodate all the activity of entire humanity. The Qur’an was revealed 14 centuries ago and after the revelation, many social and historical changes have occurred. The whole world moved into several stages in its history, depending on agricultural or natural economy, industrial cycles, and physical and technical revolution.”
“Muhammad (saaw) is my spiritual leader.”
These, and similar statements do not reflect Islamic thinking. The knowledge of Allah (swt) has no limits. If we believe in this, then we should believe that Allah (swt) CAN’T be compared to any lawmaker and His legislation CAN accommodate the entire activities of humanity. His Messenger (saaw) receives the revelation from Him, which cannot be limited. Since, the Prophet (saaw) brought Islam to us as a ‘Complete Way of Life’, then his leadership is not limited to the spiritual aspect.
‘Aqeedah (creed) as a basis for the behavior
To make the Islamic ‘Aqeedah as the basis of one’s behavior means to fulfill one’s instincts and biological needs according to the laws based on the Islamic ‘Aqeedah. Islam fulfills all the instincts and needs in an organized and coherent manner without suppression or laxity. For example, it does not prevent the human being from fearing. Rather, it directs him/her to fear that which should be feared.
“Do you fear them? Nay, it is Allah whom you should more justly fear” (At Taubah: 13)
Also, satisfying the religious instinct with all of its manifestations has to be based on the rules that are related to prayer, fasting, pilgrimage, zakat and the other things which strengthen the relationship between us and the Creator. This is the positive way of fulfilling the religious instinct. The negative aspect, on the other hand, is to worship or submit to any other deity besides Allah (swt), the Creator. The Islamic rules came to clarify both the positive and negative aspects.
The instinct of preserving the human race is fulfilled via sexual relations between a man and woman within the framework that Islam prescribes; being kind to the next of kin; and by treating the parents in a good manner. This is the positive aspect of such fulfillment. It is also fulfilled by abstaining from fornication and adultery, and by avoiding the unlawful mixing between the two sexes.
Similarly, fulfilling the survival instinct is fulfilled via exercising the means of ownership. Positive fulfillment of the survival instinct is through obedience to Allah (swt) and negative fulfillment is to disobey what Allah (swt) ordered. We can also respond by fearing only Allah (swt) and not fearing others that we are not allowed to fear.
The survival instinct has other aspects that need to be fulfilled according to the rules of Islam. This is because by its legislation, Islam directs the human being to fulfill his or her instincts and specifies the manner in which this should be done. Islam deals with this in two ways. First of all, it directs the human beings to satisfy their instincts in the correct manner, and secondly, it eliminates any selfish tendencies. This is not done by suppressing certain instincts, but rather by directing individuals towards the lawful means of fulfillment. For example, Islam treats selfishness by encouraging to sacrifice for others. Both, selfishness and sacrifices stem from the survival instinct. By overcoming selfishness with sacrifice, the survival instinct is still satisfied and the harmful effects of selfishness are eliminated. This also applies to the tendency to dominate. This is a drive stemming from the survival instinct. Islam does not suppress this drive. Rather, it directs it away from personal domination to the domination of the ideology.
Thus, an intellectually enlightened person works for the ideology to dominate. He/she continually struggles for its domination, whereas the intellectually unenlightened person wants to dominate others on a personal scale.
As a person becomes more involved and convinced with the Islamic ‘Aqeedah, and as one’s intellectual level increases and becomes more devoted and sincere to the Islamic cause, selfish and personal tendencies will be mitigated until s/he reaches a state of pure sincerity. At that point, the inclination for self-domination subsides and one does not associate any personal aspects with the ‘Aqeedah. Such that “Allah (swt) and His Prophet (saaw) become the most beloved to him” and as the hadeeth says, “so that Allah and his Prophet will be beloved by him more than his wealth, children, himself, and all people.” At that point, such a person will not feel angry for oneself, will not look at the people condescendingly and will behave as a servant for the Ummah.
If this is expected from the Muslims, then the person who carries the Islamic Da’wah would be expected to do much more. This is why in one battle, ‘Ali (ra) was about to kill one of the disbelievers but stopped when the man spit on ‘Ali’s (ra) face. The man was surprised at such behavior because he expected his action to accelerate the killing. Imam ‘Ali (ra) then told him that he initially wanted to kill him because he was an enemy of Allah (swt), but when the man spit on him, Imam ‘Ali (ra) feared that he was killing him for personal revenge and thus did not kill him.
Such examples illustrate how the ‘Islamic Aqeedah guides the behavioral aspect of the personality. The behavioral component is however more difficult to develop and maintain than the mental component. While developing and maintaining the thinking requires that the person knows more about Islam, developing and maintaining the behavioral aspect of the personality requires a continuous process of getting closer and closer to Allah (swt) through the ‘ibadat (worship) and other actions (such as Nawafil, fasting, praying, and reciting Qur’an) that enhances our relationship with Allah (swt), as well as the continuous examination of one’s desires and inclinations in order to make sure that they are subservient to the rules of Islam. In other words, one must be conscious of Allah (swt) when performing actions.
It is dangerous for us to assume that some individuals have such strong instincts that it would be difficult to control them through the Islamic ‘Aqeedah. This assumption is false because if the human being is convinced beyond any doubt of the existence of Allah (swt) and His oneness, and s/he realizes that the relationship between oneself and the Creator includes His legislation as well as His creation, s/he will act based on his/her conviction.
“Verily, His are the Creation and the Command” (Al-Ara’f-54)
When a person believes in the Islamic ‘Aqeedah based on his inner emotions and mind together, i.e., the intellectual realization of Allah’s (swt) existence is combined with the human instincts of recognizing one’s own limitations need for the Creator, the meaning of abiding by the Islamic commands is realized. The highest values in life, the Day of Judgment, accountability to Allah (swt), the Jannah…
“…whose width is that (of the whole) of the heavens and the earth” (Imran-133),
or in the Jahannum, which is nothing but the…
…”Blazing fire plucking out (his being) to the skull” (Al-Ma’arij-15,16)
need to be realized.
When a Muslim realizes all of this, it will become easier to abide by the commands of Allah (swt) even in the absence of an Islamic environment. Therefore, the Islamic ‘Aqeedah and the rules and regulations derived from it are enough to establish the behavior regardless of the strength of the human’s instincts and their manifestations. It should suffice for each one of us to regard the saying of the Prophet Muhammad (saaw) to Mu’adh Ibn Jabal, “…the people are thrown in the hellfire on their faces (or he said on their noses) except as a result of what they said.” Indeed, the Islamic ‘Aqeedah and the legislation stemming from it control the behavior and advances the human, not to mention the Muslim that carries the Da’wah, to a higher standard, one that surpasses even the angels.
In spite of all this, personal failure or ideological death can come suddenly. It is for this reason that a continuous reinforcement of the previously mentioned aspects of the personality is needed at all times. Here we quote the supplication of Prophet Muhammad (saaw) when he (saaw) said: “Oh Allah, don’t leave me to myself for a moment,” and, ” I commanded you before not to visit the graveyard. Do visit it because it reminds people of the Hereafter.” Also, the supplication of ‘Umar ibn al Khattab (ra): ” Oh Allah, give me the opportunity to mention you under all circumstances, and to remember death all the time.”
What should be realized is that failure or death can come slowly or quickly. In all circumstances, the continual observation of these meanings should help, by the will of Allah (swt), to prevent the failures. It is true that laxity in the behavior of human beings may occur, but if it is dealt with promptly, the person returns to possessing an Islamic personality. In the case where a problem goes untreated and is neglected or the person starts justifying things for himself, even on a matter like the inclination to dominate or say an offensive word, the problem becomes greater and could lead to other unwanted results. This calls to mind the saying of ‘Umar ibn al Khattab (ra): “Hold yourselves accountable before you will be held accountable.”
Therefore, the Islamic creed establishes a specific way of thinking. It specifies an objective for one’s life, places the human at a higher plane of existence, and directs the human being to fulfill all of this in an organized and controlled manner. It is crucial to note that all of this emanates from the ‘Aqeedah, the rules stemming from it, what is built upon it from ideas, and the realization of all of this and the insistence on abiding by it. The result will be a better Islamic personality and the creation of the Nahda (revival) in the society at large.
Hence, building the Islamic personality among the people who carry the Da’wah is the first step in advancing the society, and the march towards establishing the Khilafah. Thereafter, interacting with the Ummah, conveying the ideology, calling for its implementation, and concentrating on the Islamic ideas that shape the thinking of the Muslims should be the objective and cornerstone of this work.
To address the subject of the mind and its role, when discussing the Islamic divine rules with the people, is more important than discussing a particular issue and its rule. This is due to the fact that people must realize the role of the mind and its limitations, and that both the good and bad are determined by Allah (swt) and not by our mind. After that, talking about a particular rule becomes a matter of teaching that rule. However, if a person keeps thinking that the mind has an absolute role, then the fundamental problem will remain within the person, and in society, even if s/he agrees with Islam on a particular command.
The fundamental problem will remain because understanding the role of the mind is a key to building the Islamic personality and changing the society, while knowing a particular rule is needed during the Da’wah work and is to be learned and abided by. In other words, we need to realize how we can reconstruct the thinking of the Ummah and how we can rebuild the Islamic personality. Since this is a very important issue in carrying the Da’wah, we should approach the Da’wah with full knowledge and execute actions with the utmost awareness.
Our role, as Muslims, is far beyond discussions and arguments. It is the heavy task of rebuilding and reformulating the manner in which the Ummah thinks. This requires, among other things, an awareness of where and how to start, and it requires that we be patient and persistent. Above all this, we need to rely on Allah (swt) in the right way, and to seek help from Him (swt) alone. This is because the task of rebuilding and reformulating the thinking of the Ummah is a very difficult and fragile endeavor.
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What did you do on Eid?
Picture the scenario on a cold misty November night. The last of the tarawih prayers are offered across the mosques in the country. All eyes and ears are upon the Imam as he takes to the minbar; he awaits confirmation, which is provided by a whisper in his ear. Smiles of jubilation erupt across the congregation as the Imam praises Allah (swt) making supplication that the good deeds of Ramadhan are accepted and announces that the new crescent moon has indeed been sighted and the blessed day of Eid ul Fitr has arrived.
On the day of Eid the Muslims arrive in their droves, dressed in their best garments and glorifying Allah (swt) as the Eid Takbeers reverberate around the Masjid. The sweet smell of musk wafts across the prayer area. The congregation stands shoulder to shoulder for the salah and warmly embrace each other at the end of the Eid Khutbah.
People return home to delicious food and their families. Phone calls are conducted overseas and sweets and gifts are exchanged. Relatives pay visits to one another and the families greet each other with warmth and compassion. This is a typical example of the Eid day, which is probably familiar to many of us.
It’s Eid, but not as we know it…However, there is a more sinister side to the Eid celebrations of the Muslim youth. Having participated in the more “traditional” aspect of Eid during the day with family, the Muslim youth have a second celebration in the evenings. Only this time, family is not invited and the events of the night are not for the fainthearted.
From Wilmslow Road to Edgware Road, Southall Broadway to Green Street, the activity of the Muslim youth is all too familiar. The more “traditional” dress of the day is exchanged for the latest gear. The sweet smell of musk and namaz, topis are replaced by aftershave, gel and lipstick. Hours are spent in preparation but alas this effort is not for the pleasure of Allah (swt).
Limousines and sports cars hired for the day cruise up and down the road whilst others conduct street races. Bhangra music is blasted from tinted windows and Pakistan flags are displayed. The girls are extravagantly dressed and parade themselves in a manner not befitting a Muslim sister. The boys blast their horns in approval in some sort of animalistic mating ritual.
Many hold “Eid Mela parties,” where often the Hindu and Sikh youth are also invited. The “Eid Mela” is no more than a glorified nightclub with alcohol and flirting commonplace.
It is not unusual for fighting to erupt amongst the Muslim youth on this night usually involving disputes over girlfriends.
The stench of weed has replaced that of Asian sweets and the latest ‘R&B’ rhythms have displaced the Eid takbeer. Festivities continue late into the night, with youth travelling from one hot spot to another.
Ramadhan seems a distant memory as does the Tarawih prayers, which many of these youth clamoured to attend. Instead, worship is conducted at the altar of sensual pleasure. The atmosphere surrounding the day of Eid is one of relaxing and “chilling”. For some of the youth it is a time to “blaze up” and enjoy themselves.
For many the day of Eid is viewed as the time to unwind after the rigours of Ramadhan and ‘let their hair down’ and reacquaint themselves with their favourite past times. Hence we see this translating into actions such as cruising down the Broadway, checking out the “talent” and generally living it up.
What happened to Eid?For many Muslims, the very notion of the alternative Eid causes them to shudder with disgust. However it is an undeniable fact that more and more Muslim youth are being drawn to the occasion. Parents scratch their heads inamazement and some react by locking up their children to prevent them from such activity. However, the youth are victims of western society and in particular one ugly aspect of society; namely secularism.
In the West, religions and festivals are deemed to be a momentary distraction from day to day life. Hence we can see this with the way some Christians treat Lent, as a time for temporary abstinence from worldly pleasures but then they happily return to their lifestyle of old once Lent is over. This is because Christianity does not offer them anything apart from these meaningless festivals and many of them have been transformed into an excuse to get drunk and party. For example, every year St Patrick’s Dayis celebrated with copious amount of Guinness, to the extent that this day has become synonymous with the beverage.
This same idea of secularism is responsible for the way Ramadhan and Eid have begun to be viewed by many of the Muslim youth. Hence the Muslim youth are affected by this idea and consequently they just view Ramadhan as a religious festival and as a time to abstain from “worldly” desires and sins. The natural repercussion of viewing Ramadhan as a month of ‘restriction” is that its end is something to be celebrated. Hence we can see this idea in the behaviour of the youth on Eid. The day of Eid is now viewed as a time to cut loose, after all the Muslims have fasted and abstained from their desires for one whole lunar month. The idea of secularism dictates that it is time to now return to normal proceedings and abandon religion until the return of the next Ramadhan. Hence the Muslim youth are willing to fast and pray as much as they can during Ramadhan.
They will attend the Jumu’a prayers with zeal and many break off contact with the opposite sex. They are willing to do all of this because they know in their minds that Ramadhan will indeed come to an end. And then restrictions are lifted until the following year. Therefore Eid is viewed as the time to celebrate the end of the restriction and this manifests itself in the festivities of the night. And the vicious cycle continues year after year.
The true EidIt is an undeniable fact that the day of Eid ul-Fitr is special in Islam and should be celebrated, as the Prophet (pbuh) said: “When I came to you, you had two days which you used to celebrate in jahiliyah. Allah has replaced them for you with better days, the days of slaughter (adhaa) and the day of Fitr.” [Al Baihaqi in his Sunan]
However the way the Muslims view Ramadhan and the day of Eid should be in accordance with Islam and consistent with the Hukm Shara [divine rules]. Eid should not be viewed through secular eyes.
If we look to the examples of the Sahabah (companions of the prophet) we can see how they would treat the arrival of Eid. The Sahabah would literally stay up praying and crying all night, for they would feel a genuine loss that the month of Ramadhan was over and that the shayateen would be let free from their chains. It has been narrated that when the Prophet’s (pbuh) companions met each other on the Eid day, they would say to each other: “May Allah accept from us and from you”. [Related by Ahmad]
Hence we can see that the attitude of the Sahabah was not that the restrictions had been lifted – rather they would lament the loss of the month of Ramadhan and greet each other with humility. The way the Muslims should view Ramadhan is that it is not a time to just “give things up”; rather it is a time to gain reward and forgiveness and this change should be carried throughout the year.
Notwithstanding all of this, the day of Eid is to be celebrated in accordance with the Islamic injunctions. It is narrated by Imam Bukhari, Imam Muslim and Imam Ahmad that Aaisha (ra), the mother of the believers, said, “People from Abyssinia (Ethiopia) used to fence with swords in the masjid on the day of Eid. I used to watch them while I was standing behind the Prophet’s shoulders. I kept watching, until I was satisfied and then left.”
The celebration of this blessed day must be in accordance with Islam and must not violate any of the commands of Allah (swt).
ConclusionAs Muslims living in the West it has become apparent that not even the days of Eid ul Fitr are safe from the ill effects of secularism. The Muslims must be weary of any attempt to redefine Islam and bracket it with Christianity and other religions.
The Muslim youth must realise that our identity as Muslims is in jeopardy residing in the West. Indeed, the way we view Eid ul Fitr and Ramadhan is not as festivals or empty rituals. The days of Eid should be viewed as an opportunity to gain the pleasure of Allah (swt), to spend time with family and to mark the occasion in a halal manner.
The “alternative” Eid has no place in Islam and would earn the individual the wrath of Allah (swt).
Source: Khilafah Magazine 2003